How it works
Verification first, discovery second
Nobody browses profiles before age and identity steps are complete. Everything after that is designed to make intentions and boundaries legible.
Onboarding sequence
- 01Age gateConfirm you are an adult before anything else loads.
- 02RegisterContinue with Google or create an email and password.
- 03Confirm emailA verified address is required to continue.
- 04Verify phoneAdds a second signal against duplicate and throwaway accounts.
- 05Legal name and date of birthCollected for identity verification, never shown publicly.
- 06Identity verificationHandled by a provider-hosted flow. We store a reference, not documents.
- 07Accept the documentsTerms, Privacy Policy, Community Rules, and the Dating Safety Notice.
- 08Certify no commercial sexual activityA standalone, recorded certification.
- 09Consent and boundaries educationShort, required, and revisitable in the Safety Center.
- 10Create your profileIdentity, orientation, seeking, intention, and boundary fields.
- 11Optional safety screeningPurchase and authorize a criminal-history screening package.
- 12Profile activationDiscovery unlocks once required verification is complete.
Inclusive profile structure
Members describe themselves in their own terms and may select multiple preferences.
Gender identity
ManWomanNonbinaryTrans manTrans womanGender-fluidIntersexSelf-describedPrefer not to display publicly
Orientation
StraightGayLesbianBisexualPansexualQueerQuestioningAsexual-spectrumSelf-described
Seeking (multi-select)
MenWomenNonbinary peopleTrans menTrans womenCouples
Discovery, matching, and messaging

- Swipe right to like, swipe left to pass
- Mutual likes create a match
- Messaging opens only after a match
- Verified-only filter, distance, age, and last-active filters
- Intention, gender, and orientation preference filters
- Block, report, unmatch, and mute on every profile
- No links in first messages
- Commercial-sex, coercion, and trafficking language detection
- Potentially explicit images blurred by default
- No explicit profile photographs
- New accounts are rate-limited
- Reported content is preserved for investigation
Flags go to people, not verdicts
Automated detection routes content to a human moderation queue. The platform does not automatically accuse any member of a crime.