Verification

We tell you exactly what was checked

No vague “passed a background check.” Each badge names its process, its date, and its limits.

The badge system

Identity Verified

The member completed the identity-verification process on the date shown.

Safety Screening Current

The named criminal-history screening package was completed and is within its validity period.

Income Verified

The member voluntarily verified income and chose to display a band — never documents or accounts.

Premium Member

The member has an active paid membership. This says nothing about safety or trustworthiness.

Required disclosures

Screening limitations
Criminal-history screening has limitations and is not a guarantee that a person is safe, truthful, or free from criminal history. Records may be incomplete, inaccurate, unavailable, delayed, expunged, sealed, or associated with another person. A verified badge means only that the specific verification process identified by the badge was completed on the date shown.
What we perform, and for whom
Criminal-history screening is optional and member-purchased. Members without a screening badge have not completed one. Members with certain criminal histories may remain on the service where the published Screening Criteria and Appeals Policy allows it. A screening is never a substitute for your own judgment or for the safety practices described in our Dating Safety Notice.
Never shown to other members
A member’s criminal record, report content, paystubs, employer, bank data, or documents are never displayed to other members. Other members see only a badge, its date, and an explanatory tooltip.

Screening scope

Subject to jurisdiction, vendor contract, and applicable law.

  • Identity verification
  • Social Security number trace, where legally and contractually permitted
  • National criminal-record search
  • County criminal-record search based on address history
  • State criminal-record search where available
  • Federal criminal-record search
  • National sex-offender registry search
  • Global watchlist search
  • Alias search
  • Reverification at least annually
Financial-crime screening

Where permitted, the policy may consider convictions for fraud, identity theft, forgery, embezzlement, financial exploitation, money laundering, theft by deception, credit-card fraud, and computer fraud. We do not label anyone a financial criminal based on arrests, unresolved cases, civil judgments, bankruptcies, credit scores, debts, or allegations.

Adjudication outcomes

Clear

No disqualifying record identified under the published policy.

Review required

A potential record requires human review.

Unable to verify

Identity or records could not be confirmed.

Ineligible

A record falls within the published safety-disqualification policy.

Disputed

The member has initiated a dispute with the screening provider.

Expired

The verification period ended and rescreening is required.

Consent, disputes, and data handling

Screening authorization is a standalone document — never bundled into a general waiver.

  • The screening provider is identified before you pay
  • Categories of information requested are described in plain language
  • You sign a separate screening disclosure and authorization
  • Possible membership consequences are explained up front
  • Dispute instructions are provided with every result
  • We retain only status, package, dates, adjudication, and a vendor reference
Income verification

Income verification is entirely optional and, when displayed, shows only a band such as “Verified $75,000–$99,999” plus the verification date. Employer name, paystubs, bank balances, account numbers, tax documents, transactions, and exact income are never published. Results expire after six or twelve months.

See screening and membership pricing